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“You’re amazing!” “You’re so smart!” “You’re the best at everything!” At first glance, it sounds like good parenting—boosting your child’s self-esteem through constant praise. But what if that well-intended encouragement is actually doing the opposite? Over time, children who are overpraised can become either overly confident, afraid to fail, or constantly in need of external validation to feel good about themselves. This article explores the subtle dangers of overpraising, why it happens, and what kind of praise truly helps your child thrive—inside and out.
Overpraising means offering constant or exaggerated positive feedback, especially for things that don’t require it or weren’t earned. It includes phrases like “You’re the smartest ever” after basic effort or praising every small action, regardless of quality or context. While it comes from love, overpraise can teach kids to associate their value with constant applause. Instead of building self-worth, it creates a dependence on praise or sets unrealistic expectations that they must always be “the best.” It’s not praise itself that’s harmful—it’s praise without substance or balance.
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